grilling

Grill the user relentlessly about a plan or design, one decision at a time, until you reach shared understanding. Use when the user wants to stress-test a plan before building or uses a "grill" trigger phrase — and proactively, before any step that changes running state, allocates a shared resource (GPUs, ports, memory), edits an interdependent config, or could invalidate an earlier decision. Adapted from Matt…